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my nearly two and half year old was toilet trained before she spent a week with her aunt and uncle, but when she came back she sometimes refuses to use the toilet and would prefer to use the grass or pee her pants.. how can I get her to use the toilet aga

Jane ...
Answer: Hi, This is not such a big issue really but if you are clear with her and just consistent and clear that she needs to go to the toilet and not wee on the grass she will get the message. Now that she is back home and back into her usual routine you can remind her to go to the toilet regularly and take her with you when you go so she learns what's involved. Gentle reminders and praise when she does use the toilet properly will also help. Don't punish or scold her, she's still so little and with time and patience she will go back to what she was doing. The change in her environment and care givers and being away from you was probably just too exciting and now that she's back home and into her usual little patterns then you can just go back to where you were. She will pick up where she was before but you'll just need to provide her with reminders and gentle praise. Best Jane
Answered: 22 Apr 2014