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you have every right to be p*ssed at him...i'd call him and make sure that he brings that the money home [although he probably wont as he has already decieved you, sorry i didnt mean that in a horrible way]!! its not fair, life is so expensive as if you can justify all that money being spent on one night out! You know what...men are so stupid, did he actually think that you woulnt find out, especially if the money was taken out of a joint account! Maybe he just thought that he would deal with it when you found out! Deffinately call him!

OMG where do i start??? I kicked my sons father out about 3 months ago, however it was long coming... Ever since my son was born my ex would go out sat night and not return home until sun night sometimes even mon morn. He would be completely off his head and would sleep for days. At first i used to call him and beg him, crying on the phone to come home and help me...then he started to turn his phone off. As the months went past i got used to it and used to pack up and go to my mums on the weekend for the help and support. I told my family that my ex was working [i didnt want to tell them about the pain i was going thru]. He then lost his job because his boss was fed up with him not showing up for work or calling in sick and he became too lazy to look for work...he went on the dole and every cent that he got he would take out and spend on drugs and alcohol. When our son was 7 months we Christened him. My mum and myself put so much money and effort into the day. I was really looking f...

I guess you are all right...it's true about all the stuff you hear on TV gets into your head. I did talk to them and they seemed really nice..and my son loves to hang out with males as his "wonderful" father has taken off to another state with another woman and her child [but we wont go into that] so he doesnt really have alot of male influence around him and i guess this would be a good thing...

I have been looking around to put my 16 month old son into childcare so i can go back to work. I am very nervous about the whole thing. Anyways i have looked at a few places but one that i went to today had 2 qualified male childcare workers. Maybe i'm just being old fashioned and silly, but it didnt really sit right with me. Can someone pls give me some advice...should i be more open minded or there other people out there that feel the same way.

My whole family are going to Bali in December for my mums 50th birthday and i really want to go with them but i have no money...I am a single mum of a 14 month old baby and i'm not working at the moment, my ex gives me no child support and he is not working so his child support assessment is $12.00 a fortnight [but i dont even get that from him]...Anyways does anyone know of any way i cant earn money from home, perhaps on the internet or something? Anyone know of any good survey sights where you can earn good money/rewards?

Trust me DONT GO BACK! Just take each day as it comes. I spilt with my ex a couple of months ago and it's the best thing i have ever done [apart from bring my beautiful boy into the world]...I was having major problems with the ex...he was drinking, taking drugs, bringing guns into my house, ODing, cheating....When you first spilt up you feel sooo crap, like it's the end of the world, but infact it's the start of a new life for you and your boy! When you think of him, try really hard to think of all the negative, i know it's hard and it's easier to think of the good times you shared...but i guarantee you that the bad times you had with him out number the good. It makes it hard coz you have to see him coz he is the father of your son..you know what i did, which helped. When my ex came over i would go into my bedroom and get onto the phone with one of my friends...he is there to spend the time with his son, not with you - and make him understand that...If you need to chat about anyth...

Oh my gosh...your story sounds very similar to what i have gone through in the last couple of months..however my ex will never change and i have kicked him out for good! things were really great before out son was born - then once he came along my ex started to go out all the time, I mean, he would go out friday night and not return home until sunday night...he then wouldnt go to work for days and slep on the lounge "recovering"...he did nothing to help me! At first i used to call him and call him begging for him to come home, but he used to just switch his phone off..I felt like a stalker but come on, I was home alone with a baby...anyways after a while i gave up fighting it and used to pack up some things and go stay at my parents place for the weekend...i used to tell them that he was working all weekend, but i coulnd tell them the truth...Then is was our sons christening...he decided to go out on the friday, he promised that he will come home on saturday morning, but guess what...

Hey Lou... My gosh, you must be feeling really horrible right now. I'm having quite a bad year aswell. My uncle committed suicide last november, which was the biggest shock and very devestating to my whole family. My mother had me quite young, so he was only 9 years older than me so he was more like a big brother and i miss his terribly. I have a 14 month old son and my partner left me for another woman [who has a 4 year old child] just over a month ago. We had been having problems for a while and he was very lazy,[hasnt even worked for the past 6 months] so i'm actually relieved he is gone - but i'm really sad for my son. He doesnt come to visit very often and is moving to QLD [i live in syd] today with his 'new found family'. But back to your situation - you know, what your husband has done is pretty bad. I know that being unfaithful is really wrong, but if it happened all those years ago and confessed to you about having a child by someone else would perhaps make things a litte...

I have a beautiful, very active 14 month old boy. My partner left me for another woman just over a month ago and i am left with the rent, all the bills and everything else. I have no money and no savings and just living off the pension. My ex is only assessed to pay me $12.36 per fornight [big woop] but he hasnt given me a cent so far, now he and his new love have moved away to QLD [i live in sydney]to start their [new life]. He told me when he left that too much of my time is taken up with 'his son' and that i dont get to do anything for 'him' anymore - mind you, he hasnt worked for 6 months and layed on the lounge all day every day, except for the weekends when he would go out for 3 days at a time. I would do absolutley everything on my own - the shopping, the cleaning, the cooking, looking after 'his son', he never lifted a finger. You know i'm actually glad that he's gone and i'm trying really hard to get my life in some sort of order....BUT, the other day i rang him and asked i...

thanx alot for your advice. I'll stop the formula feeds and see what happens. Wish me luck!!