hi, well we have now invested in a mitsibisi starwagon its an 8 seater, we also have the pajero 7 seater which we have converted to an 8 seater, but hubby uses that car for work we only go iin it for camping and when we go off road altogether/ i have been thinking about having more babies but i really should give my body a break. i havent actually as yet tried to have a girl or boy, so i don't know how to manage that one, but i love having a big family, and it is working for us, and everyone gets fed and clothed, we know our limit on money and so the kids are affordable, if i was in debt and couldn't afford to have them well i wouldnt but every child brings their own loaf of bread and they don't miss out on much, although they will probably tell you different.lol my eldest is 11 then 9 3 2 11 months now and 4 weeks so it seems we all have the varying age gaps, i conceived Ella without getting AF after the birth of Mia, as i wasunder the impression that the chances of conception without AF are 2%, although if we really didn't want to have any more kids, we would have been using some sort of contracepttion. Its amazing how many people ask if the kids all have the same father! yes they do,but i would never ask a total stranger that question.. Go the big families, if you all want more and are able to (like if you both agree on more kids) then you should go for it, i didn't want to regret and wish forever that i had just had one more!!! after the 4th one, it ust doesnt matter any more, we all keep the same routine and production line happening at breakfast and meal times, 1 more baby isn't going to make any difference..hhhmmmm am I trying to convince myself to have another..lol. we all rock as mums, love the kids and you'll be fine..