I'm also 12 weeks pregnant and extremely hormonal. The lady's day time carer who takes her out 3 times a week to give me a break, decides that every time she comes and picks the lady up we care for, its okay to invite herself in my house. I'm exhausted from taking care of her, my husband, myself and my toddler and being pregnant. The house gets neglected. Today it was absolutely trashed. Things were EVERYWHERE! i hadn't had time to clean up after I showered the lady i care for my son had gotten into all the cupboards, washing was all over the lounge, his toys were all over the floor, typical house for a toddler. Benches and stuff were clean and dishes done, but stuff all over the floor. I only have one set of hands and so many responsibilities. Today when she decided to walk in, I had to get something for the lady i care for to clean her and her carer decides to walk in and check out every single room in the house as she walks through.
This has made me so mad and im super offended. I've never felt so embarrassed with the house being so messy, never felt so ashamed. I intentionally most days stand at the door to stop her from coming in, not because the house is always messy, its usually clean but as far as im concerned shes not a friend! today though it was out of my control and I wanted to know am i the only one who finds people who invite themselves in really incredibly rude? or am i being super sensitive? I can't calm down as I'm so infuriated not only with the situation but this other carer's rudeness. Thanks for listening, really needed to vent! Any advice would be appreciated!