Anyway tonight DH and his best mate went out for dinner and his mates girlfriend stayed behind. She barely spoke for a while and I fed my girls. I put Dd2 to bed (4 months) and let my 3yo play. Then mates girlfriend says " I feel uncomfortable doing this but I think you will appreciate it in the long run." She then hands me an Internet print out for Alcoholics Annonymous!!!
She then proceeded to tell me that she is concerned as every time we see each other I am having a drink. I said we generally only see each other once a fortnight at the dinner parties and and she's drinking every time there as well. Her response "once you have kids you're meant to give up things like that. Only those without kids should indulge."
I laughed at her and she informed me how serious she was and how without help I could harm my kids and relationship. I told her she was making something from nothing. I was so glad when DH came home and she left. DH thinks it's hilarious! His mate just messages me saying sorry.
Other than those dinner parties, DH and I share a glass or two of wine throughout the week. DH thinks he should drive to the next dinner party so I can make a spectacle of myself!