Hi There,

I have not read all the replies just your opening post. I also have one son who very shy. He will soon be 4. His language is also not the clearest. I have a fantastic occupational therapist involved with him and they are working on him intergrating with other kids in play situations, we have been at it for a while now and I am starting to see results. His confidence is starting to build. He is still very shy but not to the point of just standing behind me when someone new is around.
Let me know is you want more info on what his OT is working on.
Sorry got to go me kids are calling me!