My sister has been in a relationship with an abusive man on and off for years. Every time she leaves him she ends up back with him again. Every time she leaves we ( me and my family) pick up the pieces and give her an ear and a shoulder and anything else she needs.
Last time she left him I thought she was finally rid of him. She applied for a DVO - which he fought and it went to trial and it was really stressful for the whole family - but she won and got the DVO. Then she was going through family court with him trying to limit his access to their child because she (my sister) said that he was a danger to the child etc etc. She had me so worried and stressed so many times because I was afraid he would go mental and hurt my sister and my niece. I lost sleep over it countless nights.
And this week she went back to him.
I don't even have the words to say how I feel. i feel betrayed and so angry. she has put us all through hell and probably will again. I feel like severing the realtionship for good. I dont' need the stress in my life.
trying not to cry here.