I have never quite been in your situation im 18, married with a 17 month old living in pretty much a one bedroom place. I do how ever know what its like to struggle. I don't know what your religous beliefs are but im a christian and so I believe that god will never give us more then we can handle, so even when this are tough I push through and they do become better again. I'm sure things will also work out for you somehow or anouther I wish I could do more for people in tough situations with young children. Me and my partner once hes finished studying and has a job we plan on starting up a charity to help perants with under 5's in tough situations by giving them things they will need for there young ones that just don't come very cheap like furniture, clothes, ect.