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Hi, ladies! I am not sure I have to share this or not. I got pregnant two years but not my child. Now I am facing infertility issue. At the age of 33, I am losing my hope to get the baby. Few days I ago I searched about the process of having a baby and how to get rid of infertility issue. I am still not sure what should I do and how to be more clear about infertility issue.

After the loss of a baby, I don't want to take any risk. I really want to be sure about everything and want to get rid of it. I am still reading a lot about infertility issue. I have read a lot of stories about infertility issue and relationships. It seems it connected to me. As I was trying a lot of doctors and nurses I found out few things about it. I have a 20% chance to have a baby and It still takes time.

It can hard but I am not sure what should I do? should i go with or concern to more doctors. Whatever I want the baby in my life and I really want to change my perception about my life. Infertility really sucks!

Much Love!
Infertility definitely sucks but the first and foremost thing that you can do is that have faith and patience. This stress can lead to depression and anxiety and in case you want to make use of your 20% chance, you need to get rid of this feeling. But first things first let me tell you how you can get rid of infertility. Before calling your doctor, you can do these home treatments that can reduce the risk of infertility. Have a good diet as diet is one thing which can change your body performance. Go for high fiber and protein rich whole grain foods and lots of fruits and vegetables. Track your fertile days, there are lots of apps available to track these days. Try having sex everyday once you enter your fertile period as it will increase your chances of conceiving. If you are very active, try avoiding strenuous exercise and do some low intensity exercises like walk, yoga etc. Avoid junk foods and most importantly alcohol if you are planning to conceive. Have proper rest and get enough sleep with proper nutrition and improving your lifestyle. Stressful activities must be avoided and medicines like anti-depressants also must be avoided. Infertility is not a problem with women but with men as well so have your partner tested as well. Lastly meet the doctors and get the treatments done for you and your partner so that the chances of conception could be known. You are just 33 years old and you can still have a baby so don’t lose hope at all. Best wishes!
HI

I have been working on the things that help me to change my life. I believe IVF is really good way to get a baby in life. It is not working for me.

I am trying hard.
Hello there. How are you? Infertility absolutely is devastating but; first and foremost thing you should do is have faith and endurance. This strain will escort you to depression and nervousness and in your case; it will make you feeling useless. You must to get exonerate yourself of this emotion. Look, have you thought about how you will overcome infertility? Consult your doctor. In the mean time, you can try these dwelling treatments that can lessen the danger of infertility. Have a healthy diet. Diet is key factor which enhance your body performance. Take lots and lots of fiber and protein foods and plenty of fruits and vegetables. Now, keep record of your fertile days. Try to have intercourse everyday once you go into your fertile epoch. It will augment your probability of conceiving. Try and evade arduous work out. Do low strength exercises like walk, etc. Keep away from junk or fry items. Mainly avoid alcohol if you want to conceive. Have appropriate respite. Avoid medications akin to anti-depressants. Infertility is not a dilemma with women but with men as well. You are just 33 years-old, my dear. You have bright chances of having a baby. Don’t be beaten down at all.
dear, i know the infertility phase is really hard to cope up with.Ther are times that you really break into pieces.But every cloud has a silver lining.Every gloomy day has a bright sunny morning.So you must not lose the hope factor.The 20% chance you have is actually equal to none.So better look for more remedies.Ask for solutions around.You must look into surrogacy.It will attract you surely and you will get a child.In that, you get an in-vitro fertilized child and the child nourishes in a surrogate mothers womb.After it is born you get the child.Nobody has any right to the child but you.So better start looking.Before it is too late.(
Hey, there I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure it must have been extremely difficult for you to even go through that stage. Infertility honestly is the horrifying dream. However, now there are procedures like IVF and surrogacy that help one to conceive. Yes visiting a good clinic is essentially important. The one I am having the experience has changed my life. They ensure that I am stress-free. It is more like my problem is theirs. The doctors are so experienced and professional that it amazes me. When I was invited for my first visit that too was free. I was so happy to visit everyone. As everyone was very friendly with me and extremely nice to me. I firmly believe that a good clinic will have a good patient-practitioner style as well. They definitely did have that and were considerate. The technology and the services being offered are also amazing and, therefore, you can always ask me for help.
Hi, sofia. I hope you are doing good. I am really sorry to hear about it. That you have to go through it. It's better that you do your research first. Visit some doctors. See what suits you the best. I wish you good luck. Take Care.
I am so sorry to hear this. I know the pain of losing unborn. I had 3 miscarriages but I didn't lose confidence and hope. I start looking for other options. My friend suggested me that I should go for surrogacy. I talked to my husband and he was agreed. I was happy that I have a last hope. I have a baby now through surrogacy. I am happy I didn't lose hope and I am blessed now.
Hey! I am so sorry for you. I know it would be hurting for you. But this is what you have to face. I am a mother of two. I got them through surrogacy. I went for it to Europe. I face miscarriages which left me infertile. I tried again and again but no luck. I went for surrogacy because I heard alot of success stories about the clinic. I hope this would help you. I hope you will be a mother soon.
Hello! I am so sad for you. I know it would hurt for you. Be that as it may, this is the thing that you need to confront. I have a baby girl. I got her through surrogacy. I went for it to Europe. I chose it because I faced infertility for 10 years. The reason was unknown. I went for surrogacy since I heard alot of about the clinic. I trust this would help you. I trust you will be a mother soon.
Hey there. I hope you're well. It's an awful, awful situation to be in. I can understand your situation purely because I've had multiple MCs. There's nothing worse than experiencing that. Even worse than that is when they tell you that there's a high chance of infertility. I know it's really hard to take this at the moment, but the best thing is to keep the faith. Do not lose hope, please. There are a lot of alternatives. Assisted conception is a blessing. A lot of people opt for it. You should, too. It works out and it will get you a baby. There's no shame in it. I hope this helps. Good luck!
My story is almost the same. I know how you feel and I'm so sorry you have to go through this nightmare. I had 6 miscarriages in last 8 years. Doctors don’t know the reason why I can’t carry a baby. Everyone around is getting pregnant except me. And everything I do is losing... I'm looking into surrogacy option. It's hard when your family gives no support. Especially in our situation when we need it the most. I’m lucky to have supportive husband. It's very important to be on board with your love in our condition. My parents are just ignorant about surrogacy. I tried explaining the process to them but… There is nothing unnatural with surrogacy. It will be my baby, from my eggs and my dh sperm. The only thing which is not traditional is that a woman, who can carry a baby, will carry my child. Is this really wrong? I don't think so. For us surrogacy is our lifebuoy. Don't listen to anyone who is telling you it's wrong. They just don't get it. They don't know how it feels. They don't know what it's like to be infertile.
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