Jaynie i too have to see my SIL soon, she is really wonderfull and i love her to pieces, she was pregnant with her first son whilst i was pregnant with my second we were only 2wks apart, sadly she lost her little man at 22wks, that was back in March 08, they have been trying again with no luck, i fell so guilty telling her that we will be having our 3rd!!!!
Sorry not sure how to get around the not drinking thing, i am a terrible liar, and ended up telling my mum that we are expecting the other day as she turned up with a few drinks!
Thanks for listening ladies, have a great day.
[Edited on 19/06/2009]