i have the same problem. I had my baby girl 7 weeks early. Everyone came and visited me in the hospital, but she has been home for a month now, and nobody has even come past and seen her. I guess the novelty wears off for them after awhile.
I was also quite upset, coz i had planned my baby shower, but my daughter decided to come out beforehand, and my girlfriend of 20 years didn't end up coming to the baby shower. She texted me that day and told me she wasn't feeling well. Then when she rang the next week, i rubbed her nose in it and told how what a fantastic time we all had and that she missed out. She just turned around and said, that's okay, i just figured that i've already seen her, so i don't need to see her again!! How rude!! Most of my friends have pretty much disappeared now. I don't hear from them as often anymore, which is quite sad, considering i've known most of them for 20 or more years. But it is true, you find out who your real friends are when you have a baby.
Alana Michelle 15.3.07