As some of you may know I’ve had a bad year, my twin sister died in January and I got custody of her daughter. I had 7 children and I now have 8 including my sister’s child in the house. I am stay at home mum but so many children is pretty tough anyway.
I find out a week ago that my husband has another child, meaning that he cheated on me. I feel so utterly depressed and I just can’t believe he would do that to me. He has a daughter, which even makes it worse as we have been trying to have a little girl for years and years (we have 7 boys.) I feel like my whole world has been tipped upside down and I just want everything to go back to the way it was.
I found out because the mother of his daughter came to see me and told me everything, my husbands daughter is 8 years old and that just breaks my heart. She told me that he has continued the relationship with her ever since the baby was born and that she has only just found out about me and my children. She only found out because she has wanted to marry him for so long and he eventually had to tell her that he was married to stop her trying to marry him.
I have no idea how he could betray me like this because if you met my husband you would say he was the sweetest, kindest, funniest and most loving man you’ve ever met. He was my first and only love and I’ve been in love with him since I was 14 years old. My life feels like it’s just collapsed. I think what hurts the most is that we’ve been together for 16 years and married for 12 years but 9 years of that he has been unfaithful. I feel like I was not good enough for him, he got bored with me after 7 years.
If anyone has been in a similar situation or just has some advice or comments then I would really appreciate it. Reply on here or send me a PM.