Every baby is different, but keeping that in mind when reading what every one says. This worked for all four of my children. When brestfeading, try to have skin to skin contact for the first few weeks where posabile, it helps with bonding. you can do the same for bottle feed babies. When changing nappies, if you want to change between feeds when they get older do it when they are new born, most babies get to know when they are changed they are feed. When rapping, leave room for hands to get out, they like their hands. When going out, take everything, you never know what can happen. Always take a spare shirt for yourself, there is nothing worse than shopping and having your baby being sick over your shoulder. Clothing, always have 7 singlets on hand, one for each day, have 3 jump suits on hand not being used, get booties and mittens.
Alwyas try to keep time for just mum and baby time and same for baby and dad time and mum and dad time. It helps not only you , but dad to cope with the new baby too. It helps keep your sanity. I have 4 kids from 5 mths to 11 yrs. Always stand your ground never give in to the child, or they will keep doing it. It is never to late to ask for help with anything, people there to help.
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