My Caitlin has always been a small eater since birth. As an infant she never finish her bottles, when she was on solid she only has a few spoonful. Now she is no longer on formula except for fresh milk for nap and bedtime, 3 bottles a day. She only have a few bites then run off, we have to hand fed her, tricked her to have some more. As a result, she`s nearly 3 but still needs to be hand-fed.
Now she goes to childcare 2days a week, she doesn`t eat at all, some day she would eat but small portion only because no one there to force her or feed her. She hasn`t gain weight in 2 months.
Her condition doesn`t really worry me as I know children all different, if you can find a way to improved her feeding that would be great.